encounter with a fellow countryman ...

i've lived in london for a long time, but i don't think that i've ever had an encounter with a fellow countryman ... not that i've consciously avoided it, just that the opportunity hadn't come up ...

so i was recently online chatting to a guy who seemed keen to come over ... after checking that we had similar interests, we agreed to meet up ...

when he arrived he looked ok, but quite different to his pics - quite a bit heavier, and not so youthful !

he seemed a nice enough guy, and it was only when we were almost in my bedroom that we realised that we hailed from the same country ...

the sex was reasonable - he was very keen and eager, but he was a bit too hot and sweaty for my liking ! he wasn't very well endowed, which i don't mind at all, but he seemed a bit anxious at times ...

we had a bit of an accidental insertion - only marginally, momentarily ... but it reminds me that i haven't been to the clap clinic for well over a year ...

it all ended happily enough ... with a couple of decent sized loads ...

he didn't stay around for too long afterwards ... but we were both so hot, that cuddling wasn't really on the cards anyway !

a strange night ...

i was on Grindr recently, and saw a asian cute guy nearby, so started to chat to him ...

he seemed keen to come over, but it was late, and since i have trouble sleeping with the temptation of a hot guy next to me, i made sure that he would be able to get home afterwards ...

he arrived at my place, a little drunk, not quite as cute as his Grindr pic, but still a nice guy ...

he seemed a bit shy ... i wasn't sure if he was interested in me ... he seemed to be relaxing and engaging with me, but then our conversation went in a strange direction ...

after discussing what country he was from, i mentioned that i had met another guy from his country a few months beforehand ...

London being as big as it is, i've never met somebody who knew somebody else that i've had sex with ... but this was a first! he realised he knew who i had met, and seemed a bit upset, as it's a good friend of his! later he said that he wished i had met him before his friend - he couldn't have sex with me as i'd previously had sex with his friend !

i consider myself reasonable picky, but that seems like a very restrictive approach to life !!

it really was a strange evening ... he seemed up for some good cuddling ... and then became interested in my horniness ... up to the point of my climaxing ! but strenuously kept his horniness wrapped up !!

in the end, i let him stay the night ... which as usual, meant that i kept waking up and cuddling/playing with him ... which meant the next day i was dog tired !

i just about managed to do a day's work ...

date outside a pub ...

i recently went on a date with a friend of a mutual friend ... really nice guy, and easy conversation ... but i'm not sure that he's really potential bf material ...

whilst he is a little bit older than me, it seems like his attitude is that of an older person ...

also, there wasn't any real spark for me (even after a couple of pints) ... but you never know what might come with time ...